Daily I remind myself I'm not in control.
I mean, I am to a certain extent but there are many areas that are out of my hands. Sometimes that can be difficult to face. This morning I was not in control of something and I put myself out of sorts. Notice I didn't say the EVENT PUT ME OUT OF SORTS.
We always have a choice to make on how we react to happenings around us that may have an effect on us indirectly or directly. Generally, I try to ask myself these questions when I notice my level of "snarkiness" start to rise:
1. In the big picture, is it worth me being in a negative state of mind?
2. Will being out of sorts solve anything?
3. What choice can I make to change the mood I'm currently feeling?
Then I look down at my newly purchased ring that says KARMA on it. Whatever I put out into the world is going to come back to me. When I spread positive vibes, well wishes, and happy thoughts to others, they will come back to me.
It reminds me of a video one of my 4th grade students shared with me a few years ago.
Whatever we put out into the world comes back to us eventually. I don't know about you, but I would rather it be something positive than negative.
That I can control.
I'm a lover of life, an eternal optimist, and I have an intense desire to add value through simple living and positive vibes.