"Positivity is the sunlight in your garden. You can't grow without it." -Shaun T.
Let that sink in for a moment. If there is no sunlight, a garden won't grow. Without positivity, you don't grow.
I've always thought of myself as a pretty positive person. I would say I'm 90% positive with 10% snarky. Maybe it's not quite that high, but I feel it's pretty close. A few years ago, I asked for feedback from a few trusted friends and colleagues. I wanted them to tell me three things I did well and three areas of improvement.
While not all of them responded, the ones who did both reinforced how I perceived myself but also gave me some insight to help me on my path to growth and enlightenment.
Doing something like that definitely got me out of my comfort zone but it was so worthwhile to me. You never know what someone is going to say, and I tried to get a cross-section of different people in my field to understand how I came across to them.
And the overwhelming aspect of me they pointed out as a strength was my ability to always be positive, even in stressful situations. They said I was calm and was the one who maintained a sense of balance when there was chaos. That was so insightful to me, because sometimes I am calm on the outside when I'm literally freaking out on the inside.
Much of that outside picture of calm I directly attribute to daily meditation practice. While I continue to strive to be calm on both the outside and inside, I know it's a continual process.
I'm currently being tested right now as I begin a new and different job opportunity. While there are similarities between education and the retail world, I know that my training will be completely different. I'm embarking on an adventure in unknown territory. There is a lot to learn, almost like taking the plunge into a foreign language in a new land.
However, it gets my brain thinking in different ways. When we continue to do something we've always done, we begin to get a complacent. Trying something out of our comfort zone is a great way to test what we know about ourselves, and I like that feeling of being challenged.
In the long run, I know it will help me grow in ways I never imagined possible. Bring on the sun!
I'm a lover of life, an eternal optimist, and I have an intense desire to add value through simple living and positive vibes.